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Contrast Creates Clarity

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Abraham-Hicks says about Clarity:

So often, you say, to us, “Abraham, I want more money but I don’t know where it will come from. I would really like to have more money. I know a lot of people that have money. I believe that money could come to me, but it doesn’t come to me. I don’t understand why it doesn’t come to me. It comes to them. I know that money is a good thing and I believe that there are ways, but why doesn’t it come to me?”

It is like wanting a nice cup of hot tea, so you turn the water on. You put the fire on under your teapot and you turn it on, and then, right before it boils you turn it off. And then you turn it on again, and right before it boils you turn it off. And then you turn it on again, and right before it boils you turn it off. And then you say, “For ten years I’ve been trying to get hot water,” and we say, “Just leave it on.”

You have been trained to be very objective, to weigh the pros and the cons, the pluses and the minuses. Actually, part of that is a good thing, because contrast is necessary for you to come to a decision. And while it seems like a weak reason to you when you are living something you really don’t want, from your broader Nonphysical Perspective you would not give up this contrast for anything.

Without knowing what is not wanted, you could not identify what is wanted.

So, the key is, as human Deliberate Creators, you must find a way that you can utilize the contrast in order to decide what is wanted. What you’re wanting to do is to sift through the data of contrast with an intent to select from it what you are wanting.

When you peruse the contrast for the intent of choosing what you do want, you’re using contrast in the way you were born to do it. You’re using contrast in the way your Inner Being does. But when you sift through the contrast to define what is not wanted and you hold that resistant stance as you say, “No, I want not this,” now you have turned contrast, which would have served you well, into resistance, which never serves you well.

Abraham-Hicks.com - July/August/September 1998 Newsletter

The Universe (God, whatever, whomever you believe in) does not give us “what we want”. It gives us what we are a vibrational match to.

So, what is a practical way to use clarity to determine what it is we want instead (of what we are experiencing) - and then, be able to use various processes to become a vibrational match to that?

It’s easy really. And to demonstrate what that looks like specifically, you may want to follow along as I Coach someone on this exact Subject.

First, you will want to listen to this Coaching Call:
“Why have I still not attracted a job after 9 months?”

Then, wander over to The Art of Living THE SECRET Forum for the exercise that is a great clarity-gaining exercise!

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Comments

4 Responses to “Contrast Creates Clarity”

  1. Sandy Lovett on November 3rd, 2007 10:47 pm

    Hi Pat,

    Thank you so much for doing this coaching call so we could all listen to it. My situation is very similar so I did the tapping with you and I have also once again written down my do not wants and my wants.

    Wow, I can’t wait until you continue. I really feel as though I got a lot out of the tapping, even though you weren’t tapping specifically for me. Many of my feelings were the same or very close to your clients.

    This is wonderful. I hope there’s more to come!

    Love,

    Sandy

  2. Pat on November 5th, 2007 12:48 pm

    Sandy,

    Tapping along with someone else that is being coached is actually called “borrowing benefits”! :-)

    Glad you got benefit from it and there is LOTS more to come!!!

    Love,

    Pat

  3. Marc on December 12th, 2007 5:28 pm

    Pat,

    Thank you so much for recording the call — I’ve been going through a very similar situation, so this is tremendously helpful, as well as comforting. Keep up the great work!

    Marc

  4. Pat on December 14th, 2007 3:44 pm

    Marc,

    Welcome and glad you enjoyed it!

    I have some more great stuff coming and it is taking more time than I thought to pull it together!

    If there is anything special you would like me to touch on, please let me know! :-)

    Love,

    Pat

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