Nov

15

You, the Visionary - Law of Attraction, the Manager

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Are you knowing that you are the creator of your experience? Is that a good thing? Have you noticed that there is a continual new desire within you? Are you beginning to understand that the desire that is focused within you is the most natural thing in all of the Universe? Are you beginning to understand that the desire that continually focuses within you is the natural consequence of the contrast in which you are so dramatically, emphatically, and precisely focused?

You are focusing mechanisms and your ability to perceive within the framework of the variety that is around you causes continual focus, or desire, to be born within you. The entire Universe is established to help you - creator out here on this leading edge of thought - assume your new stance or conclusion or determination or decision or idea, or desire.

Desires are born within you, constantly, whether you verbalize them, or not. You are focusing mechanisms creators out here on the leading edge of thought, in this natural environment where you synthesize data and conclude.
DESIRE is natural. The Universe is established to help you give birth to Desire.

We are here to assist you, if it is your desire, in helping you to find vibrational harmony with the desire that is flowing through you. And, it is your work to allow the desire that has been concluded by your process.

We have been calling this gathering, ‘The Science of Deliberate Creation,’ for it is a wonderful thing when you are standing in a place of deliberate focus. But we think a very important subtitle for this gathering would be ‘The Art of Allowing.’ Because unless you have learned how to bring yourself into vibrational harmony with the Energy that you are pulling through you, (under the title of ‘desire’) then you stand in a place of resistance.

Desire is a natural thing. When desire is born within you, and you are blocking or resisting or not allowing the desire that is flowing through you - that is what resistance is. When you learn to allow the Energy, that is being summoned through you by the power of your desire, to flow in a non-resisted manner - that is creation at its best. That is fulfilling your reason for being. That is living, as the extension of Nonphysical Energy that is you, out here on this leading edge of thought - allowing the Energy that creates worlds to flow through you.

What confuses most people about this is that you have not learned to be discriminating in that which you are giving your attention to. When you see something that you want, and you say, ‘Yes yes, more of that,’ what’s actually happening, not by your yessing but by your attention to it, you are including that vibration in your mix, which means, when Law of Attraction acts upon that - you are going to get more of this that you are saying ‘yes’ to. But when you see those things that you do not want and you shout ‘no’ at them - because this is a Universe that is based upon attraction, and there’s no such thing as exclusion - when you say ‘no’ to something it’s really the same as saying ‘yes’ to it. Yes means yes, and no means yes. Whatever you give your attention to means yes.

Don’t Put It On Your Plate

What we are wanting you to begin to recognize is that there are different ways to evaluate contrast. There is that light way of making choices, like you do at a smorgasbord of food: ‘I will have some of that, and I will have some of this, and I will have some of this,’ where you don’t get all upset about the stuff you don’t want on your plate - you just accept that you don’t have to put it on your plate. But in the smorgasbord of life, most of you get all bent out of shape about those things you don’t want in your life, and so you offer a vibration of resistance, as if, if you could shout ‘no’ loud enough, or push hard enough, you could keep those things out of your experience. And Law of Attraction (that which is like unto itself is drawn) says you can’t.

The harder you push against something, the more you vibrate in harmony with it, and the more you vibrate in harmony with it, the more Law of Attraction yields it to you. Not because you’re bad, but because you are vibrating mechanisms that are saying ‘yes’ to things you do not want.

Your work as an allower, is to get happy and stay there. The Universe knows exactly what you want. And because you are blessed, worthy beings, this benevolent Universe is yielding to you, constantly, all this good stuff.

Your Mission: Get Happy and Stay There - Well-Being is Natural to You

You are magnificent beings in this perfect time/space reality, and we are wanting to assist you in finding fewer and fewer excuses to disallow the Well-being that would be there otherwise. We are wanting you to realize that Well-being is your legacy. Well-being was your plan. Well-being is what is natural to you. And anything less than absolute Well-being, which means anything less than passion, anything less than clarity, anything less than eagerness, anything less than exhilaration, anything less than perfect vitality and physical Well-being, anything less than abundance and prosperity relative to all things that you desire, anything less than that means only one thing: you’ve picked up some habits of thought - that you are holding as beliefs - that are pinching off the Well-being that would be there otherwise.

We want you to be able to recognize, from now on, when you are in the place of disallowing the natural Well-being. Because when you get that, then you become one who is looking for rampages of appreciation. You become one who is looking for positive aspects. And it’s a gradual thing, friends. Don’t beat up on yourself if you cannot go instantly from aggravation to joy. Or from a place of depression to exhilaration. Or from a place of confusion to clarity. Don’t ask yourself to do something that defies Law.

Look for Positive Aspects. And go on Rampages of Appreciation.

We want to show you how to switch your vibration, little by little by little’by reaching for the thought that feels better from right where you now stand. You may be in the middle of something that has your attention, that has caused you to regurgitate feelings from a long time ago. And the vibration within you may be very far from the eagerness and clarity and abundance and Well-being that you want. In other words, you feel pretty rotten, right now, let’s say, and so, as you’re feeling really, really rotten, and some bright-eyed, shiny person comes in and says, ‘You know, you are the creator of your own reality,’ you sort of want to just punch their lights out. You wish they would just go away, because you are vibrationally very different from where they are, and that’s the last thing that you can, or want to hear.

In Harmony With Disharmony

When you feel rotten, you’re saying to the Universe, ‘Don’t yield me anything that I deserve, and don’t give me anything that I want, for heavens sakes! because I have decided to use this nitpicking thing as my excuse to hold myself in vibrational disharmony with all things that I consider to be good. I’m out of harmony with clarity. I’m out of harmony with good. I’m out of harmony with abundance. I’m out of harmony with wellness. I’m out of harmony with eagerness. I’m out of harmony with all things that I want. I’m in harmony with feeling rotten, and I hate it. But here I am.’ That’s what you’re saying when you’re standing in that rotten feeling place.

So, what do you do about it? Well, you can’t reach for a joyful thought because you do not have vibrational access to a joyful thought. It is as if there has never been a joyful thought in your head. That bright-eyed shiny person would like to get you to think a happy thought. They’re dangling them in front of you like carrots. To you they look like scum. In other words, you can’t see, through those eyes, in the way that they would like you to.

Moving Up Your Vibrational Range

So, what does one do? Well, you stand right where you are, in this rotten feeling place, and you say, ‘Which thought feels best?’ And in this rotten feeling place, you have a range of choices. And as you choose the first thought that feels best, not much will happen. You might not even realize that you feel that much better. But just by making the effort of choosing - from all these rotten choices - the thought that feels a little better than the other, just by choosing this thought that feels best out here on the edge of your range, and by holding it for as little as 17 seconds, you have shifted.

Now your vibrational range has shifted. That thought that was on the edge of your range now becomes the center of your range. You can’t go back, in this moment, to that further negative edge of your range. But you now have more available that feels even better.

It takes a selfish person: You have to want to feel good, and if you are selfish enough to reach for the thought that feels better, the same thing happens again. And if you maintain it for just a little bit, 17 seconds is really enough, that becomes the center of your range. And now, in less than a minute, you don’t even have access to the really wretched thought that was touching you a moment ago. And you now have access to range of much better feeling thoughts than you did before.

Be selfish enough to reach for the thought

Try it another couple of times, and you might be back in range with your bright and shiny friend. Maybe not. But one thing is always true: When you make the effort and you shift, even slightly, the entire Universe yields to you differently. Which means, you now have opened to a whole new range of thoughts. A whole different set of memories is now to accessible by you. A whole different pod of traffic is accessible to you. A whole new range of ideas! That with which you will rendezvous, physically, mentally, through memory, reaching into the future, or right here in your moment, has shifted because of this very minor effort that you have made. You reach the place where you easily get to this really good place of feeling wonderful. But that’s does not mean that you cannot go all the way back to where you started in 17 seconds.

We are not asking you to look at something awful, and call it good. What we are encouraging you to do is develop such a propensity for vibrating up here, that before long you have established a medium of vibration that no longer yields you access to the rotten feeling stuff like that.

So, your life just gets better and better. The better it feels, the better it feels, the better it feels, because, as you offer the vibration, the Universe yields it, because it is always true: ‘What I’m thinking and feeling and what I’m manifesting are always a vibrational match. So now, as I’m manifesting this good feeling stuff, now I’m standing in an easier and easier place to anticipate more good stuff.’

Should I Take Action?

What we see, so often, is, you stand in a place where you don’t want to be. And you say, ‘I really don’t want to be here, I really don’t want to be here, I really don’t want to be here, I want to be over there. Okay, I think I’ll take this action to get over there.’ And we say, before you take the action to get over there, take another step first: Imagine being over there. Imagine the finished place of being over there. Imagine the thrill of being over there. Get excited about being over there. Feel like you’re over there more than like you’re over here.

Do the Energy work first, and then take the inspired action. Because when you take an action to try to correct something that is wrong, all the action does is amplify what is wrongâ?¦ There’s not enough action in the world to compensate for your vibration. Guide Your Own Visualization

Just find something fresh in your now that you’re excited about, and turn your attention to it. You see, there’s a whole world out there with all kinds of different vibrations. And you could choose all around it. But the tendency is to believe that I have to clean all of that up before I can feel better. And so, you say, ‘Well that’s ridiculous. I could never get that done. I don’t have enough time in this lifetime.’

Instead, say, ‘Where I stand is a very good place, because where I stand is the culmination of a whole lot of things that I’ve been wanting. And I don’t have to go back and figure out all the steps along the way. All I have to do is figure out, from where I am, what do I now want? I don’t have to explain or figure out how I got here. All I have to do is figure out, from where I stand, where do I want to be?’

And envisioning that gets easier and easier. Someone said, ‘I’m not very good at visualizing.’ And we say, most of you haven’t practiced visualizing. You’re good at turning on the television, or you’re good at reading a book, or you’re good at watching a movie. You’re good at watching someone else’s visualization. Most of you have not guided your own visualization that much.

Wouldn’t It Be Nice If…?

Here is the key to guiding your own visualization: Here’s a nice way to do it: Play the Wouldn’t It Be Nice If … ? game. The reason the Wouldn’t It Be Nice If … ? game is so important, and so powerful, is because when you say, Wouldn’t It Be Nice If ? - you’re choosing something that you want, and in your Wouldn’t It Be Nice If… ? you’re soft and easy about it. It’s not the end of the world. It’s a much softer vibration.

‘Wouldn’t it be nice if I stumbled on something that really worked for me? Wouldn’t it be nice if the desires that I’ve been holding for a long time sort of came to a peak like a guiding light? Wouldn’t it be nice if I could meet someone who had just run across something that really worked for them, that would light a fire in me? Wouldn’t it be nice if I could reclaim the body weight that I had when I was such and such an age? Wouldn’t it be nice if?… ?’

Your logic may tell you: ‘Hey, I’ve been at this for a long time. If I knew how to do it, or if I was good at it, I’d have already gotten it done. So there’s something screwed up in this.’ And so, you hold yourself in that vibration. Where, when you’re playing the Wouldn’t It Be Nice If? game, much of that vibration will be diffused.

Play the ‘Wouldn’t It Be Nice If…..’ Game.

Imagine that you are the owner of a huge corporation. There are a hundred thousand people who work at various stages and places in this corporation, and you are the one who created it. You imagined it. You saw the need for it. You dreamed it. You found vibrational harmony with your dream. And now it’s yours.

And there are a thousands who don’t know how to use their computers, they don’t know how to file very well, they are learning at different stages, it’s a constant turnover of people, they’re in and out, they’re squabbling over parking places, some have windows, some don’t. It’s an immense organization.

And you have a manager that is just incredible. Because this manager takes care of all of this, you don’t have to deal with anything. You get an idea, and you express it softly. And the manager says, ‘Consider it done.’ You get another idea and you envision it, and your manager says, ‘Consider it done.’ You have such an extraordinary manager that you are free. You’re not dealing with the nitty gritty in the parking lot, not dealing with raises or vacations, you’re not worried about any of this stuff. You are the visionary. And you have a manager that deals with it effectively and perfectly. And you count your lucky stars, every day, that you found this manager.

And now, we’re saying to you, you have such a manager and it’s called Law of Attraction. But most of you do not know that you have that manager. And so, you keep thinking that you need to step into those many roles, and be the facilitator. And then you get bogged down in all that nitpicking, nitty gritty stuff that doesn’t have anything to do with who you really are or with your vision.

Our message to you is: You are a visionary. And of course it is lovely to be an actionary too. But if you will let your vision be real and full and you find full alignment with it before you take action’then the effort that you offer is always joyful, fulfilling, satisfying effort.

And so, keep telling the ‘manager’ what you want. Not because the manager (called Law of Attraction) needs to hear it, but because every time you talk about it, and every time you come into vibrational harmony with your own desire’you open your vortex of allowing so that the Universe can yield to you a little bit more of what it already knows you want.

You are all working much too hard at all of this. It goes like this: You are wonderful beings. You are blessed beings. You are deserving of Well-being. Well-being is on its way to you. Chill out and let it in. Play more. Do the Hokey Pokey. Someone gave Jerry and Esther a little note: ‘Wouldn’t it be funny if it turned out that the Hokey Pokey is what it’s all about?’

It turns out, it is. It is!

There is great love here for you. We are complete.

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Nov

15

How? Where? When? Who?

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Guest: I have heard you say Abraham that we don’t live in an assertive world. That we can bring everything to us by our thoughts?

Abe: There is no assertion.

Guest: How can I balance wanting to draw everything in my life without having to go into the doing or being of whatever it is that I do? I want to go and create a million dollars but I don’t want to go and work for it.

Abe: Your statement is really telling and important, because what your saying is I want a million dollars and I believe there are ways to get a million dollars that I don’t want to do. So what you’re doing is saying “I want this but I don’t want this” and that is not a very powerful statement of being because you are setting up contradiction right a way. So you soften that by saying “I want a million dollars and I want to find a way that is compatible with me to receive it.” Now there is less resistance in that.

You say “I want a million dollars and I know there are a lot of people that have a million dollars who got it in a way that would not be uncomfortable to me”. But when you say “I want a million dollars but there is no one that I am going to inherit it from”. Or “there is nobody that is going to die and leave it to me”. In other words you have to stop the contradiction.

When you talk about what you want and why you want it there is usually less resistance within you than when you talk about What you want and How you are going to get it, because when you pose questions that you don’t have answers for - How? Where? When? Who? - then it sets up a contradiction vibration within you that slows everything down.

Statements like “there must be plenty of people on the planet today who have a million dollars and an excess of it who at one time were standing right where I am just wanting it and had no idea how it was going to come”. Feel how resistance free that statement is? Words like faith and trust are so annoying on certain levels, but we want to explain to you the value of them, because even though you don’t know how, when or where or who. If you know what and you talk about why you want it and you have practiced the thought of it until it is starting to feel very familiar to you.

What begins to happen is things that couldn’t happen to you now begin happening. Ideas that wouldn’t even occurred to you now begin to occur to you and rendezvous with people that you don’t have access to begin to happen and then when your million and many more come to you. You will wonder where it always was.

Abraham-Hicks.com San Antonio, TX 1/29/05


Nov

13

Your vibrational offering creates future experiences.

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Your vibrational offering creates future experiences.

Our encouraging you to deliberately focus for some of you became being afraid of your own thoughts.

You have so much leeway.

You are so adored.

There is no need to be afraid of your thoughts….

While you focus - tend to your vibration; tend to your connection, tend to your allowing of who you really are…

On the emotional scale - wherever you are is great.

Joy doesn’t get an “A” and Depression an “F”.

When you move from Depression to Anger you get an “A”.

Move from Revenge to Anger you get an “A”

Move from Anger to Frustration you get an “A”.

There is no inappropriateness where you are..

No longer compare your vibration set point to others..

Cultivate an attitude of here is where I am on my way to something better -move easier up the scale.

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Nov

12

The Emotional Guidance Scale

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The Different Degrees of My Emotional Guidance Scale – Where am I now?

1. Joy / Knowledge / Empowerment / Freedom / Love / Appreciation
2. Passion
3. Enthusiasm / Eagerness / Happiness
4. Positive Expectation / Belief
5. Optimism
6. Hopefulness
7. Contentment
8. Boredom
9. Pessimism
10. Frustration / Irritation / Impatience
11. “Overwhelment”
12. Disappointment
13. Doubt
14. Worry
15. Blame
16. Discouragement
17. Anger
18. Revenge
19. Hatred / Rage
20. Jealousy
21. Insecurity / Guilt / Unworthiness
22. Fear / Grief / Depression / Despair / Powerlessness

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Nov

10

How Do I Change My Opinion of Myself?

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There are many folks that have asked me how to improve their opinion of themselves so that they are not reliant on others to give them feedback that they are okay.

There are many processes to do that and EFT is one of the best ways I have found.

This particular podcast by Carol Look and Rick Wilkes does the very best job I know of explaining this.

EFT-Talk Podcast #5 — How can I improve my self-esteem NOW using EFT?

  • You can raise your self-esteem right now by accepting where you are right now… but we usually get stuck WAITING for things to get better before we allow ourselves to feel good.
  • Using EFT and the law of attraction, you can make a shift to increasing your self-esteem while changing the underlying negative energies that are causing the behaviors you don’t want in your life.

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Nov

9

Extreme Wealth Atlantic City Special Offer!

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Nov

5

Larry King and the San Diego Wildfires

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I just read an interesting transcript of a show that Larry King from CNN LIVE, did with John Assaraf, Deepak Chopra and others, about the San Diego Wildfires.

There were some pretty interesting points made on this show and the one point that leaped out at me was what Deepak said about “set points”. Here are his tidbits of gold:

“OK, Larry, these days, there’s a lot of scientific research on how people handle these situations.

We have something in our brain called a set point. And some people, when they look at a situation like this, they, of course, are devastated, and others actually find an opportunity in that adversity, and they will come out much, much stronger.”

The conversation wanders among the host and the guests and then, Deepak adds this:

“Let’s say somebody wins the lottery today, $10 million. They will be ecstatic. But, in a year from now, they will be exactly where they were before they won the lottery, which means either back to their level of happiness or their level of unhappiness.

The same thing with tragedy. When people go through a major tragedy, as she went through, after a year to maximum two years, people will be exactly where they started from, as happy or as unhappy as before.”

Bravo, Deepak for bringing this up!

Many teachers do not speak of this and this is a critical point. If we find ourselves repeating patterns over and over, whether it be with attracting the same types of Relationships (co-workers, bosses, business partners, love relationships) or Health issues (one illness going away only to have it replaced with another) or Money issues (surprise checks in the mail only to be matched with surprise bills or expenses), it is because of our “set point”.

Until our vibration is cleaned up on that Subject and our set point on that Subject matter changes - nothing will change.

(Actually, technically speaking, things change all the time. Sometimes, they just change to the same exact thing - over and over - so it just seems like nothing changes.)

I see people speak of this in the forums all the time. They will cry, “HELP ME! I am doing all this stuff and nothing is happening!”

What they don’t understand is: Thanks are happening. It is just that the vibration has not changed. So, things are just changing to the exact same thing.

The “internals” create the “externals”. Change the “internals” and the “externals” will change.

It has to.

It’s the law.

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Nov

3

Why? “All about letting yourself and everyone else…”

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This is as good as any time to explain the Subtitle of this blog, “It’s all about letting Yourself and Everyone Else ‘off the hook’!”

So, why did I choose to use that as a subtitle?

Okay… I’ll tell ya’! :-)

I have found over the decades of coaching people that most feelings that do not feel good are due to the fact that we are usually doing one of the following things:

  • Beating up on ourselves for something we did or said.
  • Beating up on ourselves for something we didn’t do or didn’t say and maybe we “should have”. (Those first 2 on this list are related and are otherwise known as trying to “re-write history”.)
  • Judging others as being wrong.
  • Wanting others to behave a certain way and trying to figure out how we can get them to behave differently.
  • Blaming others for how we feel.
  • Explaining, Justifying, Rationalizing.

I am just curious - how much time and energy do you spend doing one of the things I mentioned? ;-)

What if… we let ourselves off the hook for whatever happened (or didn’t happen)?

What if… we let everyone else off the hook for whatever happened (or didn’t happen)?

What if… we chalked everything up - I do mean EVERY THING - up to “contrast”?

In other words, whatever happens in our lives - whatever we experience, is an opportunity to see what it is we do not want, which gives us a picture perfect idea of what we do want instead!

Well, that looks good on paper, doesn’t it?

In other words, if we were able to just snap our fingers and look at each situation as an item on a menu to choose from, that would certainly be the case.

We would be saying,

Peas? No thanks!

But Corn? YES!

Blue sweater? Nah.

But look at this Green sweater! YES!

See how easy it would be?

But when it comes to Relationships, we are also usually pretty attached to the outcome. We want things to go the way WE want them to go.

In other words, when others in our lives are not BEing and DOing what we want them to do, it affects our mood.

So, how do we “unhook” from all that stuff?

How do we effortlessly pivot from the icky feelings that crop up when we experience something from the buffet of interactions with people that is not to our liking?

Isn’t that tougher? Shouldn’t somebody DO something about all those people and how they behave? How they treat me?

Good questions. Here is what Abraham-Hicks says on this:

You teach each other your respective responsive vibrations

[Guest in the Hot Seat is having difficult interactions with his stepdaughter]

Abraham: And you gather up this new resolve that it is going to be different in your experience and then you walk right into the face of that. We want you to understand what it is that you’re bumping up against that’s making you so nuts.

It isn’t her choosing things that disagree with your choices. That’s not what’s making you so uncomfortable. It is her own personal discord that you are bumping up against that is making you uncomfortable. We know the trap. It’s like, “Well I’m only responding to what she’s taught me.” And this is the thing that we want so much for you all to hear from us here today:

You teach each other your respective responsive vibrations. In other words, you don’t feel any way about anyone without their helping you to feel that way. It’s really co-creation. We’ll even go further, and bolder, and louder, and blunter. If there’s somebody you don’t like, they don’t like you either!

We have never seen it otherwise. We have never one time, ever, known someone to adore someone… that the one that they were adoring, didn’t adore them back!

Now, some are thinking.. “Oh wait a minute. There was that man that I loved with all my heart, and he didn’t love me back.” And we say, you were offering him insecurity. You were offering him worry. It wasn’t that pure vibration of love.

When you are tuned in, tapped in, turned on — when you are connected to your Source and holding someone as your object of attention and you are genuinely offering that feeling of love and appreciation — they can’t offer you anything else! The law of attraction, that manager called law of attraction would not put you together… even when you live in the same house. You would rendezvous differently. You would come home when she’s not there; she’d come home when you’re not there. Or she would be unavailable or she’d be doing something else. You would really have to work hard to seek out those incompatible moments, when you are in that place of pure positive energy. It just could not happen, you see.

So. What we’re suggesting to you - and we are certainly understanding how it came about - your dominate vibration about this girl - is bringing you nothing but grief. And somebody should do something about it — and it’s not her.

Abraham-Hicks.com Sacramento, CA 7/27/02

That was a great example and even tho’ the relationship example may appear to be a specific one, it applies to all relationships. Spouses, siblings, co-workers.

So, let them off the hook for what is going on. Offer what it is you are wanting in return, in an easy and relaxed manner.

And if there is something that keeps surfacing about them - some characteristic of theirs that keeps triggering you - if this person seems to just bring out the worst in you?

Chances are they are mirroring something that bothers you - about you. Let yourself off the hook about that, too. Do some EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) around the thoughts and feelings that are coming up and see how much different your relationships are. Your relationship with others and first and foremost, your relationship with you! :-)

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Contrast Creates Clarity

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Abraham-Hicks says about Clarity:

So often, you say, to us, “Abraham, I want more money but I don’t know where it will come from. I would really like to have more money. I know a lot of people that have money. I believe that money could come to me, but it doesn’t come to me. I don’t understand why it doesn’t come to me. It comes to them. I know that money is a good thing and I believe that there are ways, but why doesn’t it come to me?”

It is like wanting a nice cup of hot tea, so you turn the water on. You put the fire on under your teapot and you turn it on, and then, right before it boils you turn it off. And then you turn it on again, and right before it boils you turn it off. And then you turn it on again, and right before it boils you turn it off. And then you say, “For ten years I’ve been trying to get hot water,” and we say, “Just leave it on.”

You have been trained to be very objective, to weigh the pros and the cons, the pluses and the minuses. Actually, part of that is a good thing, because contrast is necessary for you to come to a decision. And while it seems like a weak reason to you when you are living something you really don’t want, from your broader Nonphysical Perspective you would not give up this contrast for anything.

Without knowing what is not wanted, you could not identify what is wanted.

So, the key is, as human Deliberate Creators, you must find a way that you can utilize the contrast in order to decide what is wanted. What you’re wanting to do is to sift through the data of contrast with an intent to select from it what you are wanting.

When you peruse the contrast for the intent of choosing what you do want, you’re using contrast in the way you were born to do it. You’re using contrast in the way your Inner Being does. But when you sift through the contrast to define what is not wanted and you hold that resistant stance as you say, “No, I want not this,” now you have turned contrast, which would have served you well, into resistance, which never serves you well.

Abraham-Hicks.com - July/August/September 1998 Newsletter

The Universe (God, whatever, whomever you believe in) does not give us “what we want”. It gives us what we are a vibrational match to.

So, what is a practical way to use clarity to determine what it is we want instead (of what we are experiencing) - and then, be able to use various processes to become a vibrational match to that?

It’s easy really. And to demonstrate what that looks like specifically, you may want to follow along as I Coach someone on this exact Subject.

First, you will want to listen to this Coaching Call:
“Why have I still not attracted a job after 9 months?”

Then, wander over to The Art of Living THE SECRET Forum for the exercise that is a great clarity-gaining exercise!